Two for the price of one….
What they don’t tell you……
When I found out I was having twins, I’ll admit I was overwhelmed. Everyone around me seemed to have a horror story to share “You’ll never sleep again!” or “Double trouble coming your way” But honestly, let me tell you about the incredible joy that comes with having twins.
Embracing the Joy of Having Twins
First off, there’s the unique bond you get to witness. Watching my twins develop their own special relationship has been one of the most magical experiences of my life.
They have this unspoken understanding, sharing looks and giggles and their gibberish that only they get.
It’s heartwarming and a bit inspiring to see how they connect wait till they start saying each others name, their love and protection they have for one another, is like no other.
And then there’s the sheer thrill of double the milestones! Every time one of them takes a step or says a new word, I get to celebrate it twice! It’s like living in a constant party of little achievements. The day they both started saying mamma for the first time, I was in all sorts or wonder and love, you can imagine the joy of those moments!!!
One thing I love is how they learn together.
They inspire each other in ways I never expected. If one is trying to do something open up some sort of food the other will jump in, eager to help her sister out. It’s such a rewarding feeling to see them grow and learn side by side.
And let’s talk about shared playtime! With built-in playmates, they keep each other entertained for hours. I love watching them get lost in their little worlds, creating adventures that only they understand. It gives me a chance to catch my breath while they engage in their own imaginative play, even how messy it gets!!
They know whose toy is whose, whose fork is who, basically, they’ve got a better sense of ownership than I do at this point. And the best part?
They’ve developed this incredible sense of protection for each other.
It’s like having built-in bodyguards, except their idea of protection involves covering each other in snack crumbs and dramatic rescue missions when one of them drops a toy.
It’s wild, but honestly, I never knew twins could have such a deep, unspoken bond.
So yes, there are challenges!!!!!like when they both decide to have a meltdown at the same time, and times when sharing is not even in their vocabulary ……but the joys of raising twins far outweigh the fears….
So Embrace the chaos, cherish the laughter, and remember that this journey is filled with incredible moments.
You’re not just raising two kids; you’re nurturing a beautiful, unique bond that will last a lifetime. Trust me, you’re in for a wonderful adventure!
Alana x
